Love Bites

Whomever said love is blind certainly never really knew what love is. I believe that people can love each other no matter what. They can embrace each other in love and companionship, until, of course, the shit hits the fan. Now, there are different kinds of lovers. The first one believes love is somewhat conditional. This person looks for ways to ingratiate himself onto someone else. They win them over completely, then they screw them over behind their back (and not in a good way). Next, there is the person who sees all the signs of deceit and dishonesty and chooses to ignore it. I'm this kind of person. I have a theory that if he comes back every night, then he loves you to a certain degree. He cares enough to be with you each night. So what if he is out with everyone else carousing the streets, etc.? That's all just incidental...right???

 

I guess I know how Hillary must have felt when Bill went on each of his little trysts. You have to be the strong one and overlook these things for the good of the relationship. You must be the one who takes it on the chin and smiles the next morning so he doesn't have to remember what just happened. Perhaps, he just can't help it? Ha...sure he can, but if you mention it to him then you get threats of self-harm and self-loathing. It's always innocent. *wink wink* I always misunderstood what I saw, according to him. Isn't that the real price we pay for love? A blind, infected eye.